Category: TV

Burning Love & Memoirs

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Does anyone remember a show called Burning Love that aired back in 2012-2013 on E! (Entertainment)? It was a parody of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette. I found out my library had it on DVD so I’ve been re-watching it before bed and it’s hilarious.

The first season focuses on firefighter Mark, played by Ken Marino. Instead of giving roses to the ladies, he gives them his hose.

The second season focuses on Julie, played by June Diane Raphael. She gives contestants her box.

One of them is Robby Z, played by Paul Scheer. June and Paul are married in real life and I was curious if they met on the set and learned they were married well before then.

That led me down a little rabbit hole where I found out Paul had written a memoir in 2024 which received a lot of praise so I borrowed it from the library.

I’ve never been particularly fond of the actor because every character I’ve seen him play is super annoying, which isn’t fair to him, I know. He is particularly gross and annoying in The League. But I digress…

I was not prepared for how well this man writes. He can tell quite a compelling story, even when the content is disturbing. The amount of abuse he suffered as a child is awful and makes me so angry at all the adults in his life, particularly his parents, that let it go on as long as they did.

I’m in no way trying to say I had anything close to the childhood he did, but I saw myself in some of his tendencies, such as feeling content spending time alone (which I did a lot as a child), pretending to be a character in a movie (another thing I did often), collecting souvenirs from experiences, and journaling. My guess is it’s a self-soothing coping mechanism to deal with trauma. I believe we all have some in various degrees.

In any case, I highly recommend his book, and the show that led me to reading it, if you can find it at your library. It’s all but disappeared online other than short clips on YouTube.

2025 1st Quarter Recap

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01/25 (Sat)
We attended a LEGO train show at the arboretum.

01/27 (Mon)
Deactivated/deleted all my X accounts because F you know who.

01/31 (Fri)
Decided The Pink Stuff is a scam. I’ve owned it for years and I’ve yet to find a single thing it can clean better than the other products I own. In fact, it barely cleans at all. If someone knows what I can use this stuff for, please let me know, because it was a waste of money as far as I’m concerned.

Got a photo of the Rock Dove (aka city pigeon) that started showing up recently. We decided to name him Vinny (and as time would go on, he invited his friends and we’d have up to 8 of them at a time under the feeder).

02/01 (Sat)
Finally found a use for my E.T. TV tray from the 80s – to hold my Sonic order while I eat in the car.

The Philly Cheesesteak at Sonic is pretty good, by the way.

02/02 (Sun)
Put out a new welcome mat. I realized I didn’t have any for that time period between Christmas and spring, and this one suits my sentiments exactly.

02/04 (Tue)
Loving these pretzel twists from Trader Joe’s. Not quite the same as the ones Sonic sells, but still quite good when made in the air fryer.

02/14 (Fri)
Celebrated Valentine’s Day like the romantic couple we are by getting Mexican takeout (ironically from the same place as last year) and finishing the Dexter prequel, Original Sin.

02/15 (Sat)
Went to an ice hockey game at an arena close to home. A longtime friend and her sister are on a team that was playing an exhibition game that night. Joe and I sat by her husband (who happens to also be my ex from the mid-90s haha), his friend, and their two kids. It was nice getting out of the house for an event even though I hate going out at night. It’s also really cold inside the arena so I was so happy to get home and under the covers with my heating pad to warm up my cold feet! It was nice seeing everyone, though. I met my friend, her hubby, and her sister in the 90s on a BBS; and while the friend and her hubby have been to our house for a game night, I hadn’t seen the sister in decades.

02/16 (Sun)
Had to contact Discover to get a new account because someone got ahold of the card # and was making fraudulent charges labeled as Apple.com

02/21 (Fri)
Migraine City! That is what this month has felt like as I’ve had one every week. Typically I get at most two in a month so this is concerning. Not sure if it’s due to tight muscles in my neck, dry eyes, or hormones, but it’s annoying nonetheless especially because over the counter headache medicine isn’t making it go away like in the past, so they last two days.

02/24 (Mon)
Had my longtime ComEd electric account hijacked because someone can’t do their job correctly. Apparently someone in the same town called to put electric in their name and somehow ComEd wasn’t listening properly and changed my account instead of the correct address that has the same number but a totally different street name (that doesn’t even sound like ours so how they made the error I’ll never know). They couldn’t reinstate my old account so I had to get a whole new account # too. So annoying!

02/25 (Tue)
Received my new Discover card and had to go through all my auto-pay accounts to update the payment information. At least it was relatively warm outside (60 degrees) so I could open the windows and listen to the birds.

02/26 (Wed)
Had to contact Amazon a second time about getting a refund for a gift I returned over a month prior. When I spoke to them the day before they assured me they would process the refund, which they did, but they shorted me $4.42 for some reason, so I had to get them to fix the error. They acted like they were doing me a favor which infuriates me. I returned the item. I got confirmation I returned the item. The confirmation also listed what was paid for said item. So why didn’t they refund the full amount in the first place?

02/28 (Fri)
Tried to get Paczki from a local bakery called Hannah’s that everyone on Facebook was raving about, only to arrive and find they had two flavors available and wouldn’t have any others until later. Call me crazy, but as a bakery shouldn’t you have all items available upon opening? We left empty-handed because I didn’t want to give them our business. We got some Paczki from Caputo’s for $2 each and were labeled as also being from a local bakery but they were quite dry and I didn’t care for them.

03/02 (Sun)
Tried a Burger King iced coffee for the first time and wow, it was not good. I asked for a plain iced coffee but I swear it tasted subtly like mocha to me. In any case, for almost $3 I’d rather get an iced coffee from McDonald’s; it tastes much better and is only $1 via the app deals.

Although now that I’ve found the perfect products, I’d rather just make iced coffee at home.

03/03 (Mon)
Had a new hot water installed. You can read about that debacle here.

03/15 (Sat)
Visited my parents for the first time in nearly a year. It was actually a pleasant experience without Brother #2 there (which is why we chose a non-holiday timeframe). We worked on everyone’s computer (what else is new haha), got some food from the local Burger King (the location of my first job in the 90s), enjoyed some of my mom’s food as well, and played a game called What’s Your Like?

03/17 (Mon)
Made corned beef and cabbage in the crockpot for St. Patrick’s Day. We splurged this year by getting Vienna from Woodman’s which was $27.79 but it was the most tender cut of meat with almost no fatty pieces.

It was a bit on the saltier, side, though, so if we get it again next year I might rinse off some of the spices (the meat was marinated in it instead of having a spice packet).

03/21 (Fri)
What the hell happened to McDonald’s Shamrock shakes? They are awful now! We usually get one every year, but missed out last year, so I’m not sure when they changed the formula but I will not ever get one again – it tasted medicinal.

03/24 (Mon)
Learned our association hired a new landscaping company. I really hope they actually stick to a schedule and not show up on random days multiple times a week making noise with their leaf blowers like the last company.

03/28 (Fri)
Joe took the day off work and we ran a bunch of errands before visiting the arboretum in the afternoon. We were delighted to see not one, not two, but three belted kingfishers by Sterling Pond, but I was not able to get a photo of any of them that I liked because they were way too far away and kept getting spooked whenever we got closer.

I did get a photo of this bluebird, though.

And this Northern Flicker peeking from behind a tree.

03/29 (Sat)
Joe’s son, E, and his girlfriend, A, paid us an early afternoon visit. I made chicken salad sandwiches for lunch which they really seemed to like. So much so, A wanted the recipe (apparently neither one had ever had chicken salad before).

03/30 (Sun)
Paid a visit to West Branch Forest Preserve to get some fresh air where I was finally able to photograph a Brown Creeper!

We timed our visit perfectly – it had rained in the early morning and started to drizzle as we made our way back to the car. We stopped and picked up Bibibop on our way home.

The next morning someone posted about a loose dog they saw about four miles from the preserve. The dog looked a lot like the dog we saw that afternoon. The lady with it didn’t have a leash on the dog, so now I’m wondering if it just got ahead of her and lost, or something happened to her. I had been tempted at the time to tell this lady to leash her dog, but I don’t think it would have made a difference.

Notable series this quarter:

Shrinking (Apple TV)
We finished season two which I thought was even better than the first season. We binged it hardcode during Apple’s free preview weekend.

Dexter: Original Sin (Showtime)

I wasn’t expecting to like this prequel but Patrick Gibson really picked up on Dexter’s mannerisms beautifully. The actors playing a young LaGuerta, Batista, and Masuka looked a lot like their older counterparts as well. We were hooked and had to stop ourselves from binging it too quickly. Once we were finished we were inspired to watch the original Dexter series which we fell in love with all over again. There was so much we had completely forgotten in the two decades since the series originally aired. And while seasons 5-8 weren’t as good as 1-4, overall it’s still an 8/10 for me.

Streaming Stupidity

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Determining when you’ve finished an episode of a series, and then displaying the next episode in your “continue watching” should be Streaming Services 101… and yet Peacock and MAX just can’t seem to handle this simple concept. You have to literally start the next episode and then exit out, otherwise the end of episode you just watched will be what appears in the “continue watching” section the next time you log in. Why these two services can’t figure out that if you’ve reached the credits, that means you’ve completed the episode, is beyond me.

And MAX takes it one step further by placing you at the end of the episode you just started watching, thus confusing you further and making you question where you really left off. This happens even after turning off auto play! I’ll let it finish the episode and take me back to the series page, and yet the already watched episode is forced upon me next time. Whhhyyyy? This is such a simple programming fix!

Apple gets it. Hulu gets it. Netflix gets it. Why can’t these two streaming piles of you know what fail at something so spectacularly simple, and why aren’t more people complaining?

I started using Just Watch (an app and online service) just to track my place in series because of this nonsense.

In addition, if it’s a TV series I can borrow from the library, I’ve started doing that vs watching it on MAX because it’s just too infuriating. We had unknowingly skipped episodes of the shows we were watching on that service because of how stupidly it operates. And if you check Reddit, people have been complaining about this for years and yet nothing has been done to rectify it.

Sony Bravia 65″ LED TV

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On November 22nd we got a new tv for the living room.

Back in January our Samsung 55″ TV started showing purple spots which have since multiplied and indicate the LEDs are going out. I watched a video on how to replace them and it’s a ridiculous process, so we decided it would be better to buy a new TV instead. We originally planned to wait until the Samsung died completely, but with the upcoming tariffs expected in January, the cost of electronics is going to increase, so we made the decision to purchase now instead.

I did a lot of research and based on how bright our living room is, and that sunlight hits the screen directly sometimes, an OLED was out. They’re pretty expensive anyway, and Joe didn’t want to spend more than we spent on the Samsung, so we kept our budget to $1000-$1200 and settled on a Sony Bravia XR 65″ (X90CL) for $999 at Costco.

We decided on Costco instead of our preferred retailer, ABT, because Costco was offering a free extended warranty which will now cover the TV for five years.

Due to its size, it wouldn’t fit with the stupid legs on our existing TV stand, so we also had to buy a new tabletop stand for it which we got from Amazon. We like our TV stand and didn’t want to spend another $500+ to get a new one. I’m not necessarily regretting that decision, but I am a little bummed that the TV sits higher than I would have liked and because of how it hangs from the stand, it’s tilted ever so slightly back to keep it from toppling forward. The stand also allows you to swivel the TV which makes getting it to look straight a bit of a challenge, but the swivel makes access to the back of the TV easier. There are always tradeoffs.

Why these TV manufacturers almost exclusively use ugly feet on smaller TVs that can handle a middle stand is beyond me, but I hate it, because you either have to buy a wider TV stand or mount the TV on the wall or a middle stand like we opted to do.

And you can also tell from the photo that the TV is now blocking the shelf we had above the old TV that held the center channel and two speakers for our audio system. It looks stupid to me and I’d like to remove it and push the TV back a little more.

I’m having trouble adjusting to the larger screen size. Apparently 55″ was ideal, at least for me (Joe doesn’t find the bigger screen overwhelming like I do). I’m just glad we didn’t get a 75″. We considered it until measuring out how much that would cause us to have to spread out the furniture surrounding the TV console to accommodate it.

I’m still working on adjusting the TV’s picture settings to get things how I like them. I feel like the color in particular is too warm with a green cast to it. As it stands now, I feel like the Samsung has a better picture/resolution than the Sony even though the Samsung only has a 60 Hz refresh rate whereas the Sony has 120 Hz. I’m hopeful that once I get the settings to our liking I will no longer feel that way.

I do like that the Sony uses Google’s Android TV for their OS. It was one of the reasons we didn’t get another Samsung or an LG, although I still don’t understand why they all put the streaming apps in one ridiculously long row instead of using a grid system like Roku does. Sure, you can rearrange the order of the apps, but it’s still cumbersome having a single row of every app you use. It’s annoying having to scroll through so many apps to get to the one you want, especially when Sony put a bunch of their proprietary apps in the list. Couldn’t those at least been placed in a separate row beneath the streaming apps? And don’t get me started on how I can’t even delete certain apps at all, like Disney+ and YouTube Music.

Because the OS is powered by Google, I was able to set up a screensaver to display photos directly from Google Photos. It’s really cool watching some of my best photos cycle through on such a large screen. It even inspired me to go back and re-edit older photos so they are displayed in a higher resolution and look sharper now that I have better editing software and have learned new photo processing techniques. You can also play Spotify through the TV while watching the screensaver which is fun.

The sound, which is Dolby Atmos, is much richer than the old TV, I will give Sony that. But by the same token, the richer sound is weird to me when watching TV shows in particular. I guess I’m used to, and prefer, a flatter sound, particularly when watching sitcoms where dialog is the focus. This explains why I rarely turned on our stereo system or felt the need for a sound bar. There is a dialog sound setting on the TV but it still doesn’t sound right to me. I’ve been waiting to see whether I’d adapt to the richer sound before tinkering around with it, however.

I just hope as time goes on I adjust to the TV. I am very sensitive to change and it sucks to be excited for something new but then not like it at first. That seems to happen a lot with me, however, so I’m trying to remember that and not feel disappointed by how I feel.

July Recap

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We didn’t do too much this month thanks to the crazy hot weather most of the time, but the things we did do were pretty significant:

07/11 (Thu) – Saw Strangelove, The Depeche Mode Experience at Addison’s free concert in the park.

We sat as far back from the stage as possible and even then I felt my ears were being blasted. My phone’s decibel meter was registering the sound as being in ear-damaging territory. I was getting ready to suggest to Joe that we leave when I suddenly remembered putting high fidelity concert earplugs in my fanny pack about a week before. Not even sure why I did it. I believe at the time I was thinking it probably would be a good idea to always have some ear protection easily accessible because of my sensitive ears.

I bought them back in April 2019 but got sick shortly thereafter so never had an opportunity to use them. They felt weird at first, but were pretty comfortable after awhile. I could still hear the music perfectly fine and no extra tinnitus after the concert. I consider that a win! I don’t think I’d risk attending an indoor concert, though, but would feel ok outdoors with these ear plugs. Wish I had been aware of them years ago and maybe my ears wouldn’t be damaged now. I haven’t attend many concerts compared to a lot of people, but I do remember having tinnitus after them which didn’t go away until I went to sleep.

Anyway, the venue was way more crowded than we were expecting, but I’m glad we decided to check it out anyway because the band sounded just like Depeche Mode and played many of our favorite songs. This one family sitting in front of us was annoying, though, letting their kids run around everywhere which was rather distracting, but overall it was still a nice night out. Weather was perfect too. We don’t really go out like that much so it was a nice experience.

What’s funny is if it hadn’t been for us trying to find the second location of this little seasonal garden called Murphy’s Farm a week beforehand, we wouldn’t have even known about the concert. We went to the farm’s usual location and it was empty, so we decided to try and find their main location which we had never visited. It was closed too (apparently they only operate in the spring), but there were signs on the main street nearby advertising the free concert.

07/13 (Sat) – Adopted a dog – a Schnoodle named Olive

This is her sleeping on my lap.

Spoiler alert – it didn’t work out thanks to my broken right ear. :(

07/21 (Sun) After more than a month of eating through the food in the freezer, it was finally empty enough for a big Trader Joe’s trip. Look at all that yummy food!

07/24 (Wed) – Found this bat wreath at Home Goods. I didn’t need another Halloween decoration, but it was too cool to pass up.

07/26 (Fri) – Joe took the day off work so we went to Peck Farm Park to visit their butterfly tent. Afterwards we went to another park to walk around, then stopped for a little snack at Andy’s Custard. Joe had seen an advertisement for a key lime pie custard mixer, so we shared a medium which was delicious, but pricey (nearly $9). We grabbed some lunch on the way home and then decided to go swimming in our complex’s pool. It’s literally been years since we were last there, but we arrived shortly after they opened so it was pretty empty and peaceful. We spent about an hour there. I was a little concerned about getting burned, which would be ironic, since we just had our annual skin checks at the dermatologist the day before, because the sunscreen we have for the pool expired years ago. Luckily it still worked, but I did buy some new sunscreen a few days later.

07/27 (Sat) – Went to a shelter to meet a dog named Penelope we were interested in. She was being fostered, so we had to arrange a time for the foster to meet us at the shelter. She was listed as a Yorkie, but we quickly found out from the foster mom she was part Dachshund, which the shelter should have listed since they themselves had rescued this dog’s mom too! So they knew what she was mixed with and still didn’t disclose it. Had we known, we wouldn’t have wasted anyone’s time. As soon as I put the dog on my lap there was white fur all over my pants. So aggravating! We are specifically looking for a small non-shedding dog similar to Wookie, but these places often don’t list enough information for us to determine if they are a good fit before having to meet with them which is such a waste of time and effort for everyone involved.

This shelter does some pretty annoying things in general –

1) They neglect to post any photos of some of the dogs even after being asked to do so. Everyone has a phone with a camera these days so there’s no excuse for not being able to a single photo of a dog, if not several.

2) They put a general message about coming to the shelter to meet the dog even when the dog is being fostered and isn’t at the actual shelter. If you don’t notice the small section that lists the location as Foster Home, you will end up visiting the shelter for nothing.

3) They don’t disclose any information about the temperament of the dog even when it’s been with them or in a foster home for weeks. At that point they should have information about it. Why not post what they know to help people decide ahead of time if they even want to meet the dog? When I’m on Petfinder and Adopt-A-Pet I will often see a dog that is listed as having separation anxiety, for example, so I know to skip past them. It saves everyone time, not to mention reduces the chance of someone having to bring a dog back, so I don’t get why this shelter doesn’t care about giving out as much information as possible. People should have an idea of what they are getting into when adopting a dog. Do people just go blindly into a shelter, pick a dog based on looks, and take it home? That seems like a recipe for disaster.

If it wasn’t for the fact that they seem to get more of the breeds we’re looking for than the other rescues in the area, I wouldn’t bother with them anymore. It sucks to have to drive a half hour to the shelter just to quickly learn something about the dog that, had they listed it, we wouldn’t have pursued. They currently have another dog on their site listed as a Yorkie but no photos or a description even though it’s been posted for weeks. It’s so aggravating!

07/28 (Sun) – Visited my friend, K. She was dog-sitting two Schnauzers who were cuter and had softer fur than other Schnauzers I’ve seen. Apparently the owners get all their dogs from the same breeder so they have good genes. Surprisingly, their high pitch barks didn’t bother my ear, which I was expecting after our experience with Olive (who was half Schnauzer, which I was told is a breed with a very high-pitched bark).

Later in the afternoon we were invited to visit K’s brother’s house. They recently got a new puppy – a Maltese Shih Tzu mix. She is adorable! K’s parents were there with their poodle too, who we hadn’t met before but came right up to us and was friendly. K said she’s never like that, so that made me feel special. In fact, K said she is a lot like Wookie was – very standoffish with other people and dogs. She still was that way with the puppy but I’m sure will warm up to her with more exposure. We were invited to stay for dinner but decided not to accept, then regretted that later. Oh well, hopefully we’ll have another opportunity soon. I love K’s family, whom we’ve met before at K’s birthday parties. They are warm and welcoming. I wish they were my family!

Anyway, that was July. I don’t know why the universe is hating on me right now when it comes to finding a dog, but it sucks. I miss Wookie so damn much and I don’t expect a new dog to ever replace her, but I do think it will heal my heart a little.

Notable movies and series this month:

The Beekeeper starring Jason Statham (DVD) – Borrowed this from the library. Was pretty entertaining, and had some funny parts, but I feel like they had some bee-related missed opportunities.

Mike & Molly (Max) – Back when this series first aired I was in my Melissa McCarthy hater era, but I’ve since gotten over that. Glad I did, because this show is good!

Young Sheldon (Max) – I never had a single desire to watch this show, but we just finished re-watching The Big Bang Theory, so we decided it wouldn’t hurt to give it a try, and we both like it much more than we anticipated. Every character is interesting, and I didn’t realize the actress who plays Sheldon’s mom is the real-life daughter of the actress who plays his mom in TBBT. How cool is that?