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September Recap

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09/01-09/02 – Second half of Labor Day weekend recap

09/02 (Mon) – I put out some new outdoor fall lawn decor I found at Dollar Tree. These metal sunflowers in particular are so pretty!

09/05 (Thu) – I found this super brightly colored squirrel figurine at Dollar Tree and was intending to add it to the patio garden but decided to add it to my inside fall decor.

09/06 (Fri) – I learned Linkin Park got back together and has a new female lead singer. People apparently are losing their minds, and not in a good way. I don’t know much about the singer’s personal life, but from a music perspective, they sound great! Their latest single, The Emptiness Machine is great and actually gets me choked up when I listen. I’m not sure I understand why people are angry at them for reforming. It’s not the rest of the band’s member’s fault Chester committed suicide. Are they not allowed to move on after seven years? If they had formed under a different name but continued with their signature sound I’m sure people would have been angry about that too. If it’s one thing I’ve learned this year is you should do what makes you happy because people are always going to have something to criticize about it anyway. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, you do you.

09/07-09/08 – Weekend recap

09/09 (Mon) – Tried these new to me Bigelow cold infusion teas from Meijer. I usually drink water so they’re a nice alternative when I want something with flavor. I’m sure that’s why people drink sparkling flavored water, in fact, I just could never get into those.

09/10 (Tue) – We decided to check out the Lombard Farmer’s market since it’s in the evenings and let me tell you, it’s small and not very interesting. We contemplated getting food at one of the restaurants in the area but the prices are just outrageous and nothing looked good enough to tempt us to spend the money. We ended up splitting a Blizzard from Dairy Queen to tide us over and went to nearby Lilacia Park. Afterwards we stopped at Aldi so I could get ingredients to make a hearty pasta dish for dinner.

09/12 (Thu) – Warned my Facebook friends not to buy this “apple” scented soap from Softsoap because it just smells like cinnamon.

It’s not actually a bad scent, just not what I was expecting.

09/14-09/15 – Weekend recap

09/16 (Mon) – Joined the DuPage Birding Club

09/17 (Tue) – Ran out to a park looking for migration birds and then to a couple craft stores to look at fall decor. When exiting the last store Joe pointed out the beautiful harvest moon. Luckily I had my camera with me so I photographed it from the parking lot.

09/18 (Wed) – Had my annual exam with my OBGYN where we discussed my birth control (to help with perimenopause yay) and all the health stuff. I love this doctor so much because she’s kind, knowledgeable, and a joy to be around.

Afterwards I stopped at Aldi to look for macaroni because I was planning a surprise dinner for Joe, a dish his mom referred to as Slop In the Pot (a variation of Ghoulash). They were out of it, though, so I had to go to Target. We don’t shop there very often these days so I decided to peruse the Bullseye Playground area and their clothing for the first time in a long time. Ugh, everything sucks! Cropped sweaters/sweatshirts and thick flannels with short sleeves make no sense. Oh and plunging necklines for cold weather clothing. I will never understand it, and even if it’s trendy, why can’t they also include long sweatshirts and sweaters without a low neckline for those of us who dress for the weather? At least then everyone wins.

Added new leaf garland I got at Michael’s to the fireplace mantel. I love the colors! The leaves are made of wood instead of felt like the other garland I’ve seen so it should hold up for many many years.

Tried the Ben & Jerry’s coffee ice cream we had purchased over the weekend and instantly became addicted. It’s too bad the chocolate pieces give me reflux or I’d be eating that stuff daily. It reminds me of Edy’s Espresso chip that I used to enjoy.

09/20-09/22 – Weekend recap

09/21 (Sat) – Wookie’s 8th birthday

09/23 (Mon) – Put the suet feeder up in hopes to draw in the woodpeckers and chickadees.

When Joe got home for work we went out to Churchill Woods and surprisingly it was very busy bird-wise and I got photos of some warblers, including this orange-crowned one I had never seen before.

09/25 (Wed) – I had been anticipating a package from Amazon to arrive between 4-8 am and happened to be up at 6 am when I saw the Amazon guy, via the doorbell app, drop off two packages between the doors, and after taking two photos of said packages, look toward the neighbor’s door and say “have a nice day” before leaving.

I pulled up my Amazon account to check my order delivery status only to see this photo confirmation which included Hank, the next door neighbor’s dog, with glowing eyes. ?

But wait, there’s more…

I immediately went outside to retrieve my package and was so confused – both packages were gone! I’m like “did I just imagine all this, or did the neighbor take my stuff?”. Just then she came out and handed me an envelope, said “I’m sorry!” and quickly went back inside. Apparently she was expecting something too because both my items were in a single envelope.

When I got inside I realized my package had been torn open (and not the right way along the top tear edge either). Damn, that girl is a bit of a savage, lol! I’m not even mad about it.

I wonder what she was so excited to receive.

I’m just thankful she realized her error so quickly and didn’t throw the packages inside and leave for work, thus holding my stuff hostage. I was preparing for an upcoming last minute birding trip and needed the SD card to ensure I wouldn’t run out of room in the field.

There’s no chance of that now as the new card should hold over 4000 images and my old card will serve as a backup.

09/26 (Thu) – Our day trip to Chicago’s Montrose Point Bird Sanctuary

09/27 (Fri) – Not only did I hear a couple of chickadees outside, but when I ran to the window to observe them, I saw that there were five taking turns at the suet feeder. FIVE! I’ve only ever seen two at once, so it makes me wonder if it’s the bonded couple plus their offspring? One can hope. I’m so happy my chickadees are back and brought more with them. I love their little songs! Their very existence makes my heart so happy.

09/28-09/29 – Weekend recap

09/30 (Mon) – Got our flu and COVID vaccines from the CVS in Target. This will be the first year I’ve gotten both shots together. I noticed the flu one didn’t hurt but the COVID one sure did. Must be a larger needle.

Wookie’s 8th Birthday

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Today would have been Wookie’s 8th birthday.

Two years ago when she was diagnosed with kidney disease, I happened to notice a chart on the wall showing small dogs’ lifespan in human years. According to it, Wookie would have been 48 years old when she turned 8. I am 48 years old right now, so I hoped we could be 48 together. When she passed I was extremely sad that we’d never be the same age.

Less than a week ago I came across a video discussing something called a Lap Day, which marks the moment when you and your dog match in age, measured in dog years. I put our info into one of the calculators online and got the below result.

It makes me happy to know we synced up in age after all, and on Joe’s birthday, no less.

I still miss her so much.

July Recap

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We didn’t do too much this month thanks to the crazy hot weather most of the time, but the things we did do were pretty significant:

07/11 (Thu) – Saw Strangelove, The Depeche Mode Experience at Addison’s free concert in the park.

We sat as far back from the stage as possible and even then I felt my ears were being blasted. My phone’s decibel meter was registering the sound as being in ear-damaging territory. I was getting ready to suggest to Joe that we leave when I suddenly remembered putting high fidelity concert earplugs in my fanny pack about a week before. Not even sure why I did it. I believe at the time I was thinking it probably would be a good idea to always have some ear protection easily accessible because of my sensitive ears.

I bought them back in April 2019 but got sick shortly thereafter so never had an opportunity to use them. They felt weird at first, but were pretty comfortable after awhile. I could still hear the music perfectly fine and no extra tinnitus after the concert. I consider that a win! I don’t think I’d risk attending an indoor concert, though, but would feel ok outdoors with these ear plugs. Wish I had been aware of them years ago and maybe my ears wouldn’t be damaged now. I haven’t attend many concerts compared to a lot of people, but I do remember having tinnitus after them which didn’t go away until I went to sleep.

Anyway, the venue was way more crowded than we were expecting, but I’m glad we decided to check it out anyway because the band sounded just like Depeche Mode and played many of our favorite songs. This one family sitting in front of us was annoying, though, letting their kids run around everywhere which was rather distracting, but overall it was still a nice night out. Weather was perfect too. We don’t really go out like that much so it was a nice experience.

What’s funny is if it hadn’t been for us trying to find the second location of this little seasonal garden called Murphy’s Farm a week beforehand, we wouldn’t have even known about the concert. We went to the farm’s usual location and it was empty, so we decided to try and find their main location which we had never visited. It was closed too (apparently they only operate in the spring), but there were signs on the main street nearby advertising the free concert.

07/13 (Sat) – Adopted a dog – a Schnoodle named Olive

This is her sleeping on my lap.

Spoiler alert – it didn’t work out thanks to my broken right ear. :(

07/21 (Sun) After more than a month of eating through the food in the freezer, it was finally empty enough for a big Trader Joe’s trip. Look at all that yummy food!

07/24 (Wed) – Found this bat wreath at Home Goods. I didn’t need another Halloween decoration, but it was too cool to pass up.

07/26 (Fri) – Joe took the day off work so we went to Peck Farm Park to visit their butterfly tent. Afterwards we went to another park to walk around, then stopped for a little snack at Andy’s Custard. Joe had seen an advertisement for a key lime pie custard mixer, so we shared a medium which was delicious, but pricey (nearly $9). We grabbed some lunch on the way home and then decided to go swimming in our complex’s pool. It’s literally been years since we were last there, but we arrived shortly after they opened so it was pretty empty and peaceful. We spent about an hour there. I was a little concerned about getting burned, which would be ironic, since we just had our annual skin checks at the dermatologist the day before, because the sunscreen we have for the pool expired years ago. Luckily it still worked, but I did buy some new sunscreen a few days later.

07/27 (Sat) – Went to a shelter to meet a dog named Penelope we were interested in. She was being fostered, so we had to arrange a time for the foster to meet us at the shelter. She was listed as a Yorkie, but we quickly found out from the foster mom she was part Dachshund, which the shelter should have listed since they themselves had rescued this dog’s mom too! So they knew what she was mixed with and still didn’t disclose it. Had we known, we wouldn’t have wasted anyone’s time. As soon as I put the dog on my lap there was white fur all over my pants. So aggravating! We are specifically looking for a small non-shedding dog similar to Wookie, but these places often don’t list enough information for us to determine if they are a good fit before having to meet with them which is such a waste of time and effort for everyone involved.

This shelter does some pretty annoying things in general –

1) They neglect to post any photos of some of the dogs even after being asked to do so. Everyone has a phone with a camera these days so there’s no excuse for not being able to a single photo of a dog, if not several.

2) They put a general message about coming to the shelter to meet the dog even when the dog is being fostered and isn’t at the actual shelter. If you don’t notice the small section that lists the location as Foster Home, you will end up visiting the shelter for nothing.

3) They don’t disclose any information about the temperament of the dog even when it’s been with them or in a foster home for weeks. At that point they should have information about it. Why not post what they know to help people decide ahead of time if they even want to meet the dog? When I’m on Petfinder and Adopt-A-Pet I will often see a dog that is listed as having separation anxiety, for example, so I know to skip past them. It saves everyone time, not to mention reduces the chance of someone having to bring a dog back, so I don’t get why this shelter doesn’t care about giving out as much information as possible. People should have an idea of what they are getting into when adopting a dog. Do people just go blindly into a shelter, pick a dog based on looks, and take it home? That seems like a recipe for disaster.

If it wasn’t for the fact that they seem to get more of the breeds we’re looking for than the other rescues in the area, I wouldn’t bother with them anymore. It sucks to have to drive a half hour to the shelter just to quickly learn something about the dog that, had they listed it, we wouldn’t have pursued. They currently have another dog on their site listed as a Yorkie but no photos or a description even though it’s been posted for weeks. It’s so aggravating!

07/28 (Sun) – Visited my friend, K. She was dog-sitting two Schnauzers who were cuter and had softer fur than other Schnauzers I’ve seen. Apparently the owners get all their dogs from the same breeder so they have good genes. Surprisingly, their high pitch barks didn’t bother my ear, which I was expecting after our experience with Olive (who was half Schnauzer, which I was told is a breed with a very high-pitched bark).

Later in the afternoon we were invited to visit K’s brother’s house. They recently got a new puppy – a Maltese Shih Tzu mix. She is adorable! K’s parents were there with their poodle too, who we hadn’t met before but came right up to us and was friendly. K said she’s never like that, so that made me feel special. In fact, K said she is a lot like Wookie was – very standoffish with other people and dogs. She still was that way with the puppy but I’m sure will warm up to her with more exposure. We were invited to stay for dinner but decided not to accept, then regretted that later. Oh well, hopefully we’ll have another opportunity soon. I love K’s family, whom we’ve met before at K’s birthday parties. They are warm and welcoming. I wish they were my family!

Anyway, that was July. I don’t know why the universe is hating on me right now when it comes to finding a dog, but it sucks. I miss Wookie so damn much and I don’t expect a new dog to ever replace her, but I do think it will heal my heart a little.

Notable movies and series this month:

The Beekeeper starring Jason Statham (DVD) – Borrowed this from the library. Was pretty entertaining, and had some funny parts, but I feel like they had some bee-related missed opportunities.

Mike & Molly (Max) – Back when this series first aired I was in my Melissa McCarthy hater era, but I’ve since gotten over that. Glad I did, because this show is good!

Young Sheldon (Max) – I never had a single desire to watch this show, but we just finished re-watching The Big Bang Theory, so we decided it wouldn’t hurt to give it a try, and we both like it much more than we anticipated. Every character is interesting, and I didn’t realize the actress who plays Sheldon’s mom is the real-life daughter of the actress who plays his mom in TBBT. How cool is that?

Olive the Schnoodle

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We recently had a new dog… for 24 hours. Lest you think we’re impulsive people who don’t think through our decisions, let me explain.

We saw Olive, a 5 month old Schnoodle (Schnauzer Poodle mix) at an adoption event at the Plainfield Pet Supplies Plus on July 6th.

She was the sweetest little thing – we were able to pick her up and she cuddled with us immediately. The rescue had us take her for a little walk around the store but we ultimately decided not to adopt. I was worried her bark might bother my ear* (there was a blurb about her on their website stating she had an unusual high-pitched bark).

* Ever since my sickness in 2019-2020 my right ear has been sensitive to certain frequencies, usually in the high-pitch range, which is ironic since supposedly I’ve lost hearing in the higher frequencies which is why I have high-frequency tinnitus in that ear. When something triggers it, I feel a fluttering in that ear and then if it continues the ear will start crackling and popping. It’s not painful, per se, but very uncomfortable and it’s not something I want to experience day in and day out. It has limited my ability to work, even from home, as talking on the phone is quite often a trigger. It sucks. But anyway…

I kept thinking about Olive all week and looking at her pictures. I really liked how friendly and cuddly she was which is what I’d like in our next dog. I found out she would be at the next adoption event in Tinley Park on the 13th so we went out to see her again. We also took a look at the other dogs up for adoption through other rescues but they were all big breeds and we definitely want a small non-shedding dog.

So anyway, she was there and as cute and friendly as ever. I explained to her foster my interest and how before heading out to the event I had filled out an application just in case, but I was hesitant due to my ear condition. It should be noted at this point I’d heard her bark but within the confines of the pet store at the first event, and outside at the second one, and nothing was triggered in my ear. I thought maybe I was worrying for nothing.

That being said, I asked the foster if they would consider letting us foster her to see if her bark would bother me and she said they don’t transfer dogs from one foster to another. I was disappointed, but understood. In fact, we were getting ready to leave when the woman in charge of the rescue came by and recognized us. She thought it was a great sign we were back and was excited thinking we were going to adopt. I explained my ear condition and she offered us the ability to take her for a week to see how she’d work out. She explained she rarely did such a thing, but had a good feeling about us. She asked me to fill out their foster application (I had filled out an adoption one previously), which I did on my phone.

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May Recap

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May wasn’t a good month since it began with us losing Wookie.

We kept busy by visiting a lot of forest preserves since spring migration was happening and we didn’t want to sit around at home moping. We even went on a guided bird walk one morning which was nice. It was the most socialization with strangers we’ve had in a long time. And I did see, and photograph, some new to me birds which was nice.

The month included lots of visits to the arboretum too. I don’t think we’ve ever gotten as much value out of our membership as we have since signing back up (after a few years reprieve) in September. We even went there immediately after saying goodbye to Wookie since we couldn’t bear the thought of coming home to an empty house. So it’s become our peaceful retreat. I wish it was a bit closer to home, though.

We also worked on making our patio area look nice. With everything going on with Wookie the zinnias I had started growing inside in April didn’t take when I haphazardly planted them outside, so we bought some dwarf zinnias and other flowers at a gardening club sale, and additional zinnas, misc flowers, and tomato plants from a local farm. We also got some cute fencing and new solar lights from Walmart, so the patio is really coming along.

It’s too bad the new landscapers our association hired suck. They’ve been in the area twice and have overlooked trimming our bush and a neighbor’s bushes both times even though they’ve done everyone else’s in the vicinity. I can tell they have far fewer workers than the last company so I think they took on a larger project than they can reasonably handle. One week they cut 1/4th of our backyard and didn’t do the rest until the following week. They can’t seem to focus on making one entire area look good before moving onto the next, so there are areas that are only halfway landscaped. It’s really aggravating!

In other news, my ability to concentrate on tv shows, movies, and books has been awful the past few months. We’ve hardly watched anything new and have been sticking to re-watching shows like Mom and The Big Bang Theory. I had to lower my book reading challenge on Goodreads from 52 to 24 since I was falling way behind. I’ve only read 14 books this year, most of which were read prior to April. I’ve lost count of how many books I’ve started and given up on since then. Nothing can hold my attention.

It’s ironic that I have more free time than ever but am not utilizing it, at least on the entertainment front. I have been working on decluttering the house, donating unused items, and performing a digital decluttering of my computer (and digital storage spaces like Dropbox and Google Drive). The latter was spurred by me needing to make sure I had every single photo and video of Wookie backed up in several places, which required me to find them all and merge them first. I’m still not entirely done (I still need to compare what’s on my phone to what I have backed up to make sure I didn’t miss anything), but things are much more organized now.

One thing I’ve remained consistent with is exercise. I walk 30-60 minutes daily, some of that on the treadmill and the rest either at a park, forest preserve, or around the neighborhood in the evenings. I think it’s helped keep me from having a complete breakdown. Between losing Wookie and dwelling on how disappointed I am in the lack of closeness with most of my family members (and trust me, I’ve tried, but I can’t make people give a crap about me so I’ve stopped making the effort), I’ve been feeling really down.