My Birthday

My birthday was so-so because I had to work that day and it was freezing out. We ended up going to Red Robin for dinner because it was easy and cheap. When we went there a week ago I had earned a free entree for the next visit plus I still had money on a gift card. I usually get the Banzai burger but had their regular one and it was disappointing in comparison. Lesson learned!

We headed home after dinner and I opened my presents:

Birthday Gifts

Birthday Gifts

I was lamenting around Christmas how I wish I had a female friend to put together a bag of girlie stuff for me which is why Joe bought me all the personal care items pictured above. Unfortunately, I had a bad experience with a neutrogena cleanser awhile back (it made me break out), so I was nervous about keeping that. I also have more moisturizer than I need right now, and the nail polish was a color I already owned. So I did end up taking some of the stuff back to Ulta. Luckily it didn’t hurt Joe’s feelings since I appreciate the thought (plus I kept the lip gloss which I love). I didn’t even feel tempted to buy something with the credit.

2014 – A Year in Review

Not much happened in January

February was a roller coaster of emotions month because Nougat died but we got Marshmallow. We also visited the Chicago Auto Show, and Joe put together the sweetest scavenger hunt for Valentine’s Day.

Hershey passed away in March. A trip to the Shedd Aquarium later that month convinced me that it will be several years before we return to that overpriced place again.

In April we adopted Doug & Steve. We also went on day trips to Rockford and Elmhurst which were fun.

In May we hosted a very fun game night with a few friends. The month also included a trip to Lilacia Park to check out their beautiful lilacs and tulips. Oh, and we bought our first ever toaster!

We visited Omaha, Nebraska and Des Moines, Iowa in June. We also adopted Milo.

We enjoyed a weeklong Staycation in July that included trips to Indiana Beach and Whiting’s annual Pierogi Fest.

August was a pretty low-key month other than adopting Gizmo.

For the majority of September I obsessed over the new iPhone 6 which I purchased. I also successfully sold my old iPhone 4S for a great price. There’s too many entries to link here, so just check that month if you’re interested.

October included tests and doctor visits to address my equilibrium issues, my uncle died, and we visited Racine & Kenosha, Wisconsin. I also got screamed at by a lady in a McDonald’s drive-thru!

My Betta fish, Sebastian, died in November. I also got to spend some quality time with my cousin and her boyfriend as well as Brother #2 and his girlfriend.

December included normal holiday stuff. In addition, my car decided to start leaking and my aunt passed away the day after Christmas.

What a year! I didn’t think much happened until I started going through all my entries to put this list together. Here’s to hoping for a great 2015!

Stranger Anger

I got screamed at by a lady in the McDonalds drive thru this morning.

They gave Joe the wrong drink so he pulled up and parked to the left side to go back in and get it fixed. About thirty seconds later this lady in a black Mercedes behind us started laying on her horn (while he was still inside), then whipped up next to the car and motioned for me to roll down my window. When I did she started yelling at me saying “you are blocking 20 cars (exaggerate much?) and you NEED to move yours right now”. I made a sweeping gesture toward the empty driver’s seat and replied, “do I look like the driver?” She said some more stuff I don’t recall and then ended her rant with “you’re fucking rude” and I just looked at her backseat with two dogs in it and replied “good thing you don’t have kids in your car with that language”. Haha. 

At that point I was just trying to piss her off further by remaining calm because seriously, what did she expect me to do? Even if he was blocking everyone, which clearly he wasn’t seeing as how she was able to pull up next to our car and then drive off in a huff, what did she hope to accomplish by yelling at ME about it? Ironically, at that point SHE was actually the one blocking everyone! Not to mention swearing at me was rude so there’s more irony for you. I just laughed at the whole thing. I was proud of myself for not letting it upset me. It probably ruined her entire day, though. She needs to relax. 

Just for the record, I do feel bad if where the car was parked made it difficult for others to get around us (although clearly it was possible), but I don’t think that’s the way for someone to handle their frustration. Had she pulled up and nicely pointed out the situation and asked if we could move, I would have felt bad and apologized, but she had to be a raging bitch about it so I returned the favor.

One thing I’ve been trying to change about my mindset is that people who behave rudely aren’t purposely trying to aggravate other people. It helps stop me from getting overly upset about something I can’t control. Unfortunately that woman acted like we deliberately parked there with the intent to piss everyone off. She would do herself a favor by adopting my attitude before she has a heart attack.

Staycation Day 11 – Monday

I’m sitting here in the rat room letting Marshmallow run around just feeling super cranky about the fact that it’s 4 PM, I haven’t even showered yet, and I have to go back to work tomorrow.

I can’t believe I spent the entire day just cleaning the house. Sure, I also got a chance to knock some things off the DVR, mostly by listening while I cleaned, but where’s the fun in that? The house looks great, but now I’m in a mood.

I’m also feeling pretty cranky over the fact that I’m getting sick and tired of my iPhone and iPad. Could the autocorrect feature BE any shittier? On top of that, I don’t understand the app switching feature in iOS since it doesn’t save your place but instead refreshes content when you return to the app. It makes no sense! And the battery on my iPhone sucks a bag of dicks these days. Suffice it to say, I’ve felt like throwing my iPhone across the room more than once lately. I’ve even started seriously contemplating switching to an Android phone. I’m overdue for an upgrade so I could get one now but I really want to see what the iPhone 6 has to offer before I jump the Apple ship.

So here’s the end of my staycation – me feeling like I want to scream. It started in happiness and ended in depression. Why am I not surprised?

Staycation Day 10 – Sunday

True to word, the furthest we traveled from home today was to Target where we spent $70, mostly on toilet paper and the new fancy contact lens cleaner I have to use now. But the good news is my eye is feeling much better and I’ve been able to wear my contacts the past two days with almost no issues!

It was such a nice day we decided to spend some time at the pool. We arrived just before 11 am and were the first ones there (it opens at 10:30 am on the weekends). Joe swam some laps while I enjoyed a book. There was a nice breeze and it was so relaxing that I started feeling really depressed about having to go back to work soon. I really wish we had our own home with a big yard and a pool so we could enjoy the quiet because right around 1 pm this loudmouthed lady who I can’t stand showed up and ruined it. I guess I should be happy that we got a full two hours of no kids and quiet adults sunbathing, as that’s a record, but I was still miffed that she ruined my good time. The only saving grace was by then I had finished my book and was hungry so we probably would have left soon anyway.

After lunch we both worked on cleaning the house because it needed it! I washed the dining room and kitchen floors while Joe cleaned the toilets. Then I cleaned the rats’ cages while Joe worked out. He vacuumed the house a bit later and Marshmallow had a total meltdown. I thought he was over his fear since he didn’t react the last two times. Weird!

We spent the rest of the evening knocking some shows off the DVR. Neither of us had watched any TV this week so it was getting pretty full.

Unfortunately Joe goes back to work tomorrow and I’ll be spending at least part of the day cleaning the rest of the house. Blah!

I’m not looking forward to returning to work because I’ll be playing catchup all week plus trying to work on a new task I took over from the A/R guy whose last day was on the 18th. Technically the task is an A/P function but he was doing it because I didn’t have the time with my part-time schedule and he had more than enough time. I’m not sure if the new guy will be taking it back from me at some point or not. He starts tomorrow which means my boss was alone last week. I don’t mind the job itself that much. I mean, it’s not fulfilling work by any means, but the thing I dislike the most is the environment. I’m in a dark cubicle in the back of an office that is generally too cold (either too much air conditioning in the summer or not enough heat in the winter) with harsh overhead fluorescent lighting. It’s fucking depressing! I’m uncomfortable a good portion of the day. I like my coworkers but I can’t stand being at the office. I really wish they weren’t so paper dependent as there’s no way I could work from home doing this job and that’s what I really want. I don’t have a problem with sitting at a desk for 8 hours a day if it was my desk at home. It’s too bad that legit decent paying work from home jobs aren’t easy to come by.