March 2026 Recap

03/05 (Thu)
Sofi Tukker did a surprise livestream which we haven’t had in a long time. It seriously made me weep with happiness because it reminded me of 2020 when I was recovering from my mysterious health issues and they were streaming daily. I had missed them so much!

03/06 (Fri)
Switched our hosting plan to something a little more affordable. I want to archive two of the sites I’m paying for but no longer using so that maybe I can move this blog to a less expensive service. Trying to self-host doesn’t sound like something I really want to deal with but I’m tired of spending in excess of $100 annually just to have an easily accessible records of my life. Hardly anyone reads this so I write mostly for myself but having this blog to look up past events or just reminisce has proven invaluable so I don’t want to get rid of it.

03/09 (Mon)
Ran errands by myself for the first time since May of last year! It was nice gaining some independence back but I also missed having Joe with me. He makes shopping easier since he handles the driving of both the cart and the car.

Later went to Costco with Joe where we picked up these awesome vanilla Biscoff cookies. They will come in handy when we start birding hardcore soon.

03/10 (Tue)
Finally watched a couple of episodes of the Scrubs reboot on the heels of a complete re-watch of the original series. Not loving it thus far, but it might take time for it to hit its groove.

03/13 (Fri)
Joe took the day off work so we ran a bunch of errands and did some shopping.

We also tried a new place called Fry n Wings which was pretty decent.

03/14 (Sat)
Visited my parents and helped my brother look for a new car.

03/15 (Sun)
Ordered a cell phone for my brother. My mom finally agreed it would be good to have one in the house and for when my brother runs errands for our parents.

Was annoyed to find out that the Illinois Tollway charged us $1.50 for not having our transponder up when we went through one of the tolls when visiting my parents. They knew that I had an account because they added the fee to it, so why couldn’t they have just charged me the regular toll price of 75 cents instead of doubling it and marketing it as unpaid, thus forcing for me to pay it manually when there were funds on the account? I hate them.

03/17 (Tue)
Made corned beef and cabbage for St. Patrick’s Day. Bought the very expensive and delicious Vienna Beef corned beef like we did last year. It was nearly $30 but so worth it.

03/19 (Thu)
Decorated for Easter and went to the marsh to look for birds where we saw two Brown Creepers.

I still think they should rename that bird since it moves so fast the name just doesn’t fit.

03/21 (Sat)
Had my annual eye exam at LensCrafters. I didn’t end up having to get my eyes dilated like I expected because they offer a digital retinal scan/photo that can detect most issues. Insurance doesn’t cover it so it’s $39 but it’s well worth the price not to be light sensitive and or see clearly for hours. We were able to run some errands and go birding afterwards as a result. We saw so many Sandhill Cranes migrating overhead.

This is actually a small group compared to many we spotted.

03/22 (Sun)
We went to my parents’ house to give my brother his new cell phone and show him how to use it.

Let me tell you, if you’re trying to find a low-cost carrier, skip Mint Mobile. Their website stinks! I had issues getting it to even let me set up service because the phone I bought wasn’t in their drop-down box where they require you confirm the eSim (which I knew it had) before letting you choose a plan. Even the page where you can enter the IMEI to confirm the phone is compatible with their service re-routes you to the page with the infuriating drop-down box which hasn’t been updated in several months. My brother’s phone was released in October of last year! Whomever designed that website needs a swift kick in the ass.

I got so fed up, I found a different carrier called Tello. Not only is it cheaper ($10 monthly for unlimited calls/texts and 2 GB of data, which is more than enough for my brother who will rarely use the phone), but setting up service couldn’t have been easier. It was five minutes, if that, to enter all the info, choose the plan, and get the phone working.

I feel like Mint Mobile owes me money for dealing with their bullshit.

On the way home from my parents house Sofi Tukker announced another live stream and we got home just in time to watch it. What a great way to end the weekend!

03/23 (Mon)
Dropped our microwave off at the only repair center in the tri-state area authorized to repair it under warranty.

We were driving around the area afterwards when Joe let out a gasp – there was a KFC Long John Silver’s. Needless to say, we grabbed an order to go and reheated it in the air fryer when we got home. I grew up eating LJS and love their chicken planks, but even the fish was pretty good. I could do without the fries and hushpuppies, though. We might grab more LJS when we go back to get our microwave in a couple of weeks.

03/29 (Sun)
While walking into the grocery store there were two Canada geese flying low overhead. The one in the rear nipped the other one’s butt and also stuck its feet out like it was going to land on its backside. They were squawking at each other as if they were arguing, while still flying. It was pretty funny.

Visited Whalon Lake and had a poor lunch experience after.

03/30 (Mon)
Went back to LensCrafters to order new lenses for my existing frames since they said they send the blanks with the prescription in them to the store and then cut them to fit my frame right there, thus only taking my frames for 30 minutes. That’s much better than having my frames sent somewhere for a week or two, especially since I need them to see! I would happily buy new frames if it was easier to find some that fit my small face/head. I always have so much trouble since most adult frames are too big and kids’ frames are too small. I am the Goldilocks of glasses and it sucks.

Afterwards we went to a nearby lake where we looked for Common Loons but didn’t see any. We went to Beef Shack for dinner and also grabbed some rice balls from Atlas Chicken in the same strip mall area. We end up eating our food in the Atlas Chicken patio area since it’s so nice. Someone from Atlas came to our table to let us know the seating was for their restaurant only but Joe showed them the bag from their restaurant and they backed down. I felt pretty uncomfortable about it though since we had more food from Beef Shack than Atlas (the BS logo is more prominent than Atlas on their respective bags), so next time we’ll just eat over by Beef Shack instead.

Things I Don’t Understand

Facebook
Why does Facebook work perfectly fine on my devices but takes forever to load on a desktop computer, regardless of the browser being used? Half the time photos or comments won’t even load. Messenger and Instagram on a desktop is crappy too.

My Library
How did I get an email this afternoon from our library to let me know that a hold is in if they’re closed all day? Is there a full day delay between when they actually put the item on the holds shelf and when they email the patron to let them know? Is someone still working there when they are closed to the public? Is it magic, like Joe suggested?

Yelp
I don’t know what is more aggravating – the fact that I cannot search my own reviews on Yelp via the Yelp app or their mobile website (and ONLY via their desktop site), or that I cannot find a way to contact Yelp to ask them to make that an option in their app. Surely I cannot be the only one who has hundreds of reviews and cannot remember the name of a place they went to and wants to search their own reviews to try and find it, right??!?

And what is with companies not wanting any contact with their users? I guess because I’m not a business paying for Yelp I don’t matter? Even though it’s users like me who keep the site going indirectly by engaging with the content???

Hot Water Heater Installation

We had our water heater replaced yesterday. Unlike last time, we planned it. While it hadn’t failed, it was 14 years old, so it was just a matter of time. We chose ABT since they have good prices and employees. And while I liked our installers (D and R), once again I’m reminded why I get so anxious about such events.

Things started off poorly when I was informed by the head guy, D, that the wall cabinet had to come down for them to do the work. I was rather dumbfounded, because that wall cabinet was there in 2007 when the last water heater was installed and I don’t think the plumber touched it, and he was working by himself! Now, I could be wrong, but if he did, he certainly treated it better than these guys did (more on that in a bit).

Shortly thereafter, I was also informed that due to the existence of a check valve on the line, ABT was required by code to install a thermal expansion tank (I believe the check valve was installed a few years ago when the village put in a smart water meter). However, ABT didn’t have one with them and would have to come back to install that part at a later date for cost ($50). When I told Joe, he asked if he could swing by Home Depot to buy one and have them install it and they said yes and showed us what to get (which just so happened to be what Joe was looking at). Within a half hour he dropped it off (one of the perks of working so close to home). We saved $20, but more importantly, having to empty the laundry room a second time (although I confirmed the cabinet would be able to stay put on the second visit).

After the old heater was removed, the head guy asked if I wanted to clean the area so I used the Shark handheld to get rid of 14 years of cobwebs and dirt. The water was off by then so I couldn’t mop the area, but I did have a spray bottle of just water that I used to wet some paper towels and do a quick wipe of the floor. It was by no means perfect, but you can’t really see anything back there once the new heater is in place anyway.

As for the cabinet, I did not realize that the way Joe put it up originally, using something called Molly Bolts, hindered the guys’ ability to reinstall it the same way because they didn’t say anything to me. Apparently, once disconnected, the bolts fall into the wall so you have to use new ones. I’m guessing either they didn’t have any, didn’t want to do it that way, or felt it would be better to use screws into the studs. Regardless, I wish they would have at least ASKED me! Because I would have told them to leave it alone and Joe could have put it back up later. Now it sits a bit to the right and higher than before. I’m short enough, so I don’t like that. Not to mention the wall looks bad around it, and they left a misplaced screw in the wall which also looks bad. Oh and the bins I had sitting on top of the cabinet barely fit and scrape the ceiling. UGH!

In addition, the linoleum tile was scratched to shit in some places and one tile in particular has a very dull spot on it now. Whether Joe did that when moving the washer and dryer, or the installers did, I’m not certain, but this is why I hate having work done. It’s like no one is careful with the surrounding finishes! I’ve made notes for any future work in that room since people cannot be trusted to be careful in other people’s homes.

Oh, and the new water heater is louder that the old one because of course it is. All appliances seem to be louder these days because they’re made with cheaper parts and less insulation to equal more profit for companies and less contentment for consumers.

Streaming Stupidity

Determining when you’ve finished an episode of a series, and then displaying the next episode in your “continue watching” should be Streaming Services 101… and yet Peacock and MAX just can’t seem to handle this simple concept. You have to literally start the next episode and then exit out, otherwise the end of episode you just watched will be what appears in the “continue watching” section the next time you log in. Why these two services can’t figure out that if you’ve reached the credits, that means you’ve completed the episode, is beyond me.

And MAX takes it one step further by placing you at the end of the episode you just started watching, thus confusing you further and making you question where you really left off. This happens even after turning off auto play! I’ll let it finish the episode and take me back to the series page, and yet the already watched episode is forced upon me next time. Whhhyyyy? This is such a simple programming fix!

Apple gets it. Hulu gets it. Netflix gets it. Why can’t these two streaming piles of you know what fail at something so spectacularly simple, and why aren’t more people complaining?

I started using Just Watch (an app and online service) just to track my place in series because of this nonsense.

In addition, if it’s a TV series I can borrow from the library, I’ve started doing that vs watching it on MAX because it’s just too infuriating. We had unknowingly skipped episodes of the shows we were watching on that service because of how stupidly it operates. And if you check Reddit, people have been complaining about this for years and yet nothing has been done to rectify it.

December Recap

We both got our passports in December, although mine came over a week after Joe’s even though my application was submitted prior to his.

We also had to pay a $35 speeding ticket that was issued for the day we went to Lincoln Park Zoo in October. Apparently there are speed cameras all along Irving Park Rd. Now, Joe was in fact speeding, so I’m not angry about that. What I am angry about is they sent a warning a few days before sending a ticket for the same day. How is it a warning exactly if you’re still going to issue a ticket? Yes, they were for different locations, but all part of Irving Park Rd. If you’re trying to warn people about the strict speed limit on a particular road, shouldn’t they get a free pass for that entire day, thus getting enough time to actually receive said warning? Seems logical to me, but not to the city of Chicago, thus rendering the “warning” useless. I saw on Reddit where people were saying the whole speed trap near parks is a bunch of bullshit anyway because the city is loose on the definition of a park; it includes an empty lot that happens to have grass on it. In any case, we won’t be taking the “scenic” route home again. It not only takes longer with all the lights, but the traffic is pretty heavy, which makes being able to “speed” pretty hard to begin with (he was 6 mph over, which is the bare minimum for a ticket).

12/02 (Mon) – Put out the new Christmas welcome mat we snagged at Lowes in November.

12/04 (Wed) – Watched my Spotify Wrapped and wasn’t the least bit surprised that my top two artists – The Cure and Sofi Tukker – haven’t changed.

12/05 (Thu) – Put up the Christmas tree, and I mean that loosely because the lights and ornaments didn’t make it on the tree until 12/14.

12/07 (Sat) – My bestie’s birthday party. Always a fun time because her friends are fun to talk to, as is her brother, well usually. But for some reason he felt the need to go on what felt like a ten minute lecture about why he doesn’t like The Cure, because of Robert Smith’s voice in particular, after I mentioned they were my favorite band. It was rather uncomfortable, but K and I had a good laugh about it later because he truly didn’t mean to be offensive.

We had Shake Shack for lunch earlier in the day. It was our first visit to the relatively new location in our neighborhood, thanks to a “deal” through T-Mobile Tuesday, if you can call it that. Even with a free burger each, our total OOP was still $12 for two burgers, fries, and a lemonade. Regular price would have been nearly $30! Totally not worth it, either. None of the food was all that great, so I can’t see us ever going there again.

That morning I finally located the Little Debbie Christmas Tree Cakes ice cream at Dollar Tree of all places.

I had to reach out to the manufacturer, Hudsonville, to ask if they were being sold because they weren’t listed on their site, or on Walmart’s site, and they used to be a Walmart exclusive. They replied back with a list of stores which did not include Walmart. I’m glad, because I’m still boycotting Walmart. The last time we shopped there was in early June. If they don’t care to respond to my feedback about my poor experience in their store, then they don’t care if they lose me as a customer I guess. Although to be fair, I will probably buy more leggings from them at some point since so far I like their No Boundaries brand of leggings the best. But I’ve done my best to not buy anything else from them whereas we used to shop there at least once a month. Suck it, Walmart!

12/09 (Mon) – Won 100 stars via the Starbucks For a Year sweepstakes which was enough for a free handcrafted drink (which Joe used for a latte on 12/28).

Found the best cold brew coffee (which only our local grocery store, Woodman’s, carries) which pairs perfectly with Aldi’s peppermint iced mocha “coffee” which tastes more like flavored milk. It gave me just the right amount of peppermint without aggravating my acid reflux and I didn’t have to deal with Dunkin who can’t seem to make a good iced coffee these days if their lives depended on it.

Also learned there had been a Happy Endings podcast that was now on Spotify.

Very timely, as Joe and I just finished a re-watch of Happy Endings. Every time we watch it I’m so sad it was cancelled after only three seasons. Or more like two and a half since the first season was shorter than normal. They were truly ahead of their time. It’s no surprise that some of the writers on that show also wrote for my favorite show of all time, Brooklyn Nine Nine.

12/10 (Tue) – I’ve been searching for a green hoodie, so we went to Savers for the first time in probably a year. It was a total bust. We looked at clothing, as well as other items, and nothing was appealing. Painted Tree and Half Price Books were a bust as well.

The way they lock up the expensive vinyl records at HPB really bugs me.

See how narrow the slot is to flip through the records? Like they couldn’t have made that bigger but still small enough to stop anyone from pulling out a record. Plus they pack the box so full it’s difficult to even look at each record. I don’t bother with that box anymore because it’s too infuriating.

Tried some discount chicken strips (thanks to T-Mobile Tuesday) from Popeyes. They were pretty good, and easy to reheat in the air fryer. The breading on them reminds me of Long John Silvers, although the boneless wings (without sauce) taste even more like LJS’ chicken planks.

12/14 (Sat) – We decided to have a Polish feast for lunch, so we visited two different Polish delis to collect all the good things at each. I wish the deli closest to us had the best food, but unfortunately thus far the only thing they have that is better than the one further away is their stuffed cabbage. And truthfully, I think my own stuffed cabbage rivals both places. Too bad I’m so lazy about making it!

Finally finished the tree. Decided to switch things up this year with multicolor lights, a hodgepodge of ornaments, and the tree collar flipped opposite than usual.

12/18 (Wed) – I heard a rumor that Costco is switching to Coke products in their cafe. Guess I won’t be getting food from them anymore. I know I’m the minority, but I love Pepsi and it’s getting ridiculous how hard it is to come by a good fountain Pepsi these days. Culver’s had the best before they switched. Taco Bell’s is watered down garage. What a bummer.

12/19 (Thu) – Baked maraschino cherry chocolate chip cookies for the first time. While they didn’t come out looking anything like the recipe, they were quite tasty, so I will be making them again. In retrospect, I should have known something was off looking at the recipe photo.

Without red food coloring, there is no way to make the cookies that pink color. And there’s also no way with the amount of cherries called for to get such a large chunk of them in a cross-section. False advertising!

The recipe made 50 cookies, so I put some in the freezer along with the oatmeal chocolate chip cookies I baked earlier in the month (in order to give some to my bestie for her birthday).

And this is what they actually looked like:

I think it’s safe to say looking at Nintendo’s year in review that I am not a console gamer.

I do enjoy playing the Nintendo Switch, so I’m not sure why I do it so infrequently. I play Disney’s Tsum Tsum game on my phone and iPad quite often, though. It’s too bad Apple doesn’t do a gaming year in review. I’d be really curious to see how much time I spend playing that game.

12/20 (Fri) – I quickly became addicted to these mini cranberry orange bisconies from Costco.

Although I think they should be called scuffins instead because they’re more like a cross between a scone and a muffin and not a biscotti and a scone like they claim. The funny thing is, I suggested we try them because Joe likes the cranberry orange Belvita biscuits, but I think I ended up liking them more than he did.

We decided to stay home on Christmas Eve this year instead of going to my parents. There were multiple reasons for this, not the least of which feeling depressed over Wookie’s absence, and getting anxious over the thought of being on the road during a time when people are more abt to drink and drive.

I made my famous three cheese grits casserole for breakfast and for early dinner we pulled leftover mashed potatoes, mac and cheese, and cranberry sauce from the freezer (originally made at Thanksgiving) and added a 1.5 lb pre-sliced ham.

It was so good! Flavorful, not too fatty, and easy to heat up by the slice. I swear we’re just going to get one of them moving forward even if we have company in future years. It was plenty for several people.

Christmas Day was much of the same after we exchanged gifts, including watching multiple movies. I got Joe some grey sweatpants (IYKYK), a set of silicone tool trays, and a pour over coffee maker. He got me two bird shirts (which I’m going to exchange for a different fit), a bird calendar, and a set of 30 something buttons featuring The Cure.

After all the electronics spending recently (computer, TV, iPad) we decided not to go crazy on a present exchange this year.

Dinner was nearly identical to Christmas Eve except with the addition of green beans.

12/27 (Fri) – Got annoyed with Amazon’s subscribe and save which thought it made sense to double up on one of my items just because I kept pushing back the delivery. I assumed when I changed the delivery date it would be smart enough to know that was for a single item and not to send me two, but I guess it is more profitable if they pull that crap instead, right? Needless to say, I cancelled the subscribe and save on that as well as one other item that I probably don’t need on a strict schedule either.

Once my Paramount+ and Showtime discounted rate ends in February and we’re finished watching the latest Dexter prequel, whichever comes later, I am once again cancelling Amazon Prime. It’s $144 annually for what exactly? Free shipping you can get if your order is $35 or more even if you’re not a Prime member? Sure, you get Prime Video, but half the stuff in there is an extra rental fee and they now play commercials before a movie and multiple times during unless you pay them even more money. F that! There is nothing I need to watch that bad that I can justify paying them so much. We managed last year from March through November not having Prime and we can do it again. When I signed up it defaulted to the monthly subscription so I’m fairly certain we won’t be stuck with them a full year.

12/28 (Sat) – Found out I was one of the winners of the fall photography contest held by our birding club. The prize was bragging rights.

That afternoon we went to my bestie’s place to exchange Christmas gifts. I got her multiple items, but the funniest is she got me the complete series of Brooklyn Nine Nine on DVD, which I almost got for her, but I know she hates getting up to change discs, so I gave her a USB drive with the entire series on it instead, amongst other TV shows she likes. She should be able to watch them through her PS5.

12/29 (Sun) – Picked up some Christmas lights that were 50% off at Home Depot. We grabbed a few different style/lengths to try as a replacement for the ones we had around the patio door all year before I had the audacity to take them down in early December to put up multi-colored lights instead. When I put the previously flawlessly functioning lights back up, they wouldn’t turn on. We couldn’t find a loose bulb, and replacing the fuse did nothing. Such a bummer as they were the perfect length (approximately 25 feet). The replacement we ultimately chose to use (an incandescent set) are only 21 feet in length. I just didn’t care for the LED set (which was 28 feet long) because they seemed so bright even though they were a nice warm light. I cannot stand the pure white light LEDs that some people use.

I reached my reading goal this year with only two days to spare!

I always start the year out strong, even getting ahead of schedule, but once the weather warms up it goes downhill because I’d rather be out in nature or editing my photos. Next thing you know I’m behind on my reading and feel pressured to race through books to reach the goal I set. Therefore for 2025 I’m going to set a really low goal of 10 books so that I can enjoy reading when the mood strikes me without any self-induced pressure. I want to enjoy reading and not feel like it’s a chore.

12/30 (Mon) – Cleaned our seed bird feeder after hearing there’s an avian flu going around. It seems to be primarily affecting waterfowl, but the feeder needs regular cleaning anyway and it had been three weeks since I last did it. I don’t want my lovely birds getting sick!

12/31 (Tue) – Joe picked up a Mike’s Hot Honey pizza from Lou Malnati’s and we enjoyed a movie. Afterwards we flipped through some of the streaming services that were broadcasting live New Year’s Eve content, but it was all terribly boring, including Peacock’s year in review show hosted by Kevin Hart and Kenan Thompson. The fireworks around the world broadcast was interesting for a short time, but overall it was lame. Joe was falling asleep on the couch by 9:30 and we moved upstairs where he went to bed while I surfed online and chatted with my brother until the fireworks died down around 12:30 am. And I wish nothing but stubbed toes every day in 2025 for the person who thought blowing off more fireworks at 1:15 am was a good idea.

Notable movies this month:

The Advent Calendar (2021) – Really enjoyed trying to guess where things were going in this Christmas horror movie.

Secret Santa (2018) – Yet another horror film centered around the holiday. This one turned brutal, but it was also quite engaging.

It’s a Wonderful Life (1946) – Most people are familiar with and have seen this movie before, and I thought I was one of them, but it turns out I only remember the very last part of the movie and don’t think I had ever seen the movie from start to finish. It’s quite good.

Carry-on (2024) – Were there are a lot of inaccuracies between airport operations and how planes work? Yes. Was it engaging regardless? Also yes. And honestly, isn’t that the ultimate goal of any movie, to be entertained? And I was.

Juror #2 (2024) – This one really made you think what you’d do in the main character’s situation. My biggest gripe was how they left the ending open to interpretation.

Ricky Stanicky (2024) – I’m really loving John Cena in comedic roles, and this movie was no exception. Sometimes a stupid fun comedy is just what you need.

They Came Together (2014) – I was recently listening to Max Greenfield on the Happy Endings podcast when he mentioned working with Jason Mantzoukas on a movie. I took to IMBD to track down the movie in question which was this. It seemed familiar, but also not, and had a lot of actors I like so I gave it a shot. It was a little more slapstick-y than I care for, but still entertaining enough. The most disappointing part was how normal Jason Mantzoukas’ character was in it. He truly shines when he plays an insane person.