Category: Rants & Observations

Library Creep

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I had some library returns this morning so I decided to hang out and browse for a bit. Unfortunately, that was quickly ruined by some creeper.

A guy sitting at a table of computers was kinda staring at me as I walked past to get to the new release DVDs. Then not 30 seconds later he was suddenly next to me looking at them too. I thought it was weird, but just went to a different row to look at other DVDs, but he appeared in the row perpendicular to mine shortly thereafter. So then I moved over to the new release books and sat across from the service desk to look through one. At that point I kinda forgot about the guy.

I decided to check to out the magazines, which is down on the other side of the library in an isolated area. So I’m sitting there, and not two minutes later the guy comes walking around the corner, stopped short when he saw me, and started going back the other way. Since there was no one else in that part of the library, I quickly walked to the busy kids section, sat down, and texted Joe about what was going on. He works nearby and offered to come walk me out and kick the guys ass.

I ended up going to the service desk, explained everything to an employee, and asked if he would walk me to my car. He was happy to do it, and I described the guy (who was back at the computers by this point) in case he creeps on anyone else.
It sucks because I couldn’t relax and had to leave. I quickly ran to Vitamin Shoppe to pick up an order and went home instead of going anywhere else because my nervous system was overstimulated by that experience.

That’s never happened to me before, so I can only imagine how often it does to really good-looking women. This is the kind of shit men don’t even need to think about.

March 2026 Recap

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03/05 (Thu)
Sofi Tukker did a surprise livestream which we haven’t had in a long time. It seriously made me weep with happiness because it reminded me of 2020 when I was recovering from my mysterious health issues and they were streaming daily. I had missed them so much!

03/06 (Fri)
Switched our hosting plan to something a little more affordable. I want to archive two of the sites I’m paying for but no longer using so that maybe I can move this blog to a less expensive service. Trying to self-host doesn’t sound like something I really want to deal with but I’m tired of spending in excess of $100 annually just to have an easily accessible records of my life. Hardly anyone reads this so I write mostly for myself but having this blog to look up past events or just reminisce has proven invaluable so I don’t want to get rid of it.

03/09 (Mon)
Ran errands by myself for the first time since May of last year! It was nice gaining some independence back but I also missed having Joe with me. He makes shopping easier since he handles the driving of both the cart and the car.

Later went to Costco with Joe where we picked up these awesome vanilla Biscoff cookies. They will come in handy when we start birding hardcore soon.

03/10 (Tue)
Finally watched a couple of episodes of the Scrubs reboot on the heels of a complete re-watch of the original series. Not loving it thus far, but it might take time for it to hit its groove.

03/13 (Fri)
Joe took the day off work so we ran a bunch of errands and did some shopping.

We also tried a new place called Fry n Wings which was pretty decent.

03/14 (Sat)
Visited my parents and helped my brother look for a new car.

03/15 (Sun)
Ordered a cell phone for my brother. My mom finally agreed it would be good to have one in the house and for when my brother runs errands for our parents.

Was annoyed to find out that the Illinois Tollway charged us $1.50 for not having our transponder up when we went through one of the tolls when visiting my parents. They knew that I had an account because they added the fee to it, so why couldn’t they have just charged me the regular toll price of 75 cents instead of doubling it and marketing it as unpaid, thus forcing for me to pay it manually when there were funds on the account? I hate them.

03/17 (Tue)
Made corned beef and cabbage for St. Patrick’s Day. Bought the very expensive and delicious Vienna Beef corned beef like we did last year. It was nearly $30 but so worth it.

03/19 (Thu)
Decorated for Easter and went to the marsh to look for birds where we saw two Brown Creepers.

I still think they should rename that bird since it moves so fast the name just doesn’t fit.

03/21 (Sat)
Had my annual eye exam at LensCrafters. I didn’t end up having to get my eyes dilated like I expected because they offer a digital retinal scan/photo that can detect most issues. Insurance doesn’t cover it so it’s $39 but it’s well worth the price not to be light sensitive and or see clearly for hours. We were able to run some errands and go birding afterwards as a result. We saw so many Sandhill Cranes migrating overhead.

This is actually a small group compared to many we spotted.

03/22 (Sun)
We went to my parents’ house to give my brother his new cell phone and show him how to use it.

Let me tell you, if you’re trying to find a low-cost carrier, skip Mint Mobile. Their website stinks! I had issues getting it to even let me set up service because the phone I bought wasn’t in their drop-down box where they require you confirm the eSim (which I knew it had) before letting you choose a plan. Even the page where you can enter the IMEI to confirm the phone is compatible with their service re-routes you to the page with the infuriating drop-down box which hasn’t been updated in several months. My brother’s phone was released in October of last year! Whomever designed that website needs a swift kick in the ass.

I got so fed up, I found a different carrier called Tello. Not only is it cheaper ($10 monthly for unlimited calls/texts and 2 GB of data, which is more than enough for my brother who will rarely use the phone), but setting up service couldn’t have been easier. It was five minutes, if that, to enter all the info, choose the plan, and get the phone working.

I feel like Mint Mobile owes me money for dealing with their bullshit.

On the way home from my parents house Sofi Tukker announced another live stream and we got home just in time to watch it. What a great way to end the weekend!

03/23 (Mon)
Dropped our microwave off at the only repair center in the tri-state area authorized to repair it under warranty.

We were driving around the area afterwards when Joe let out a gasp – there was a KFC Long John Silver’s. Needless to say, we grabbed an order to go and reheated it in the air fryer when we got home. I grew up eating LJS and love their chicken planks, but even the fish was pretty good. I could do without the fries and hushpuppies, though. We might grab more LJS when we go back to get our microwave in a couple of weeks.

03/29 (Sun)
While walking into the grocery store there were two Canada geese flying low overhead. The one in the rear nipped the other one’s butt and also stuck its feet out like it was going to land on its backside. They were squawking at each other as if they were arguing, while still flying. It was pretty funny.

Visited Whalon Lake and had a poor lunch experience after.

03/30 (Mon)
Went back to LensCrafters to order new lenses for my existing frames since they said they send the blanks with the prescription in them to the store and then cut them to fit my frame right there, thus only taking my frames for 30 minutes. That’s much better than having my frames sent somewhere for a week or two, especially since I need them to see! I would happily buy new frames if it was easier to find some that fit my small face/head. I always have so much trouble since most adult frames are too big and kids’ frames are too small. I am the Goldilocks of glasses and it sucks.

Afterwards we went to a nearby lake where we looked for Common Loons but didn’t see any. We went to Beef Shack for dinner and also grabbed some rice balls from Atlas Chicken in the same strip mall area. We end up eating our food in the Atlas Chicken patio area since it’s so nice. Someone from Atlas came to our table to let us know the seating was for their restaurant only but Joe showed them the bag from their restaurant and they backed down. I felt pretty uncomfortable about it though since we had more food from Beef Shack than Atlas (the BS logo is more prominent than Atlas on their respective bags), so next time we’ll just eat over by Beef Shack instead.

Things I Don’t Understand

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Facebook
Why does Facebook work perfectly fine on my devices but takes forever to load on a desktop computer, regardless of the browser being used? Half the time photos or comments won’t even load. Messenger and Instagram on a desktop is crappy too.

My Library
How did I get an email this afternoon from our library to let me know that a hold is in if they’re closed all day? Is there a full day delay between when they actually put the item on the holds shelf and when they email the patron to let them know? Is someone still working there when they are closed to the public? Is it magic, like Joe suggested?

Yelp
I don’t know what is more aggravating – the fact that I cannot search my own reviews on Yelp via the Yelp app or their mobile website (and ONLY via their desktop site), or that I cannot find a way to contact Yelp to ask them to make that an option in their app. Surely I cannot be the only one who has hundreds of reviews and cannot remember the name of a place they went to and wants to search their own reviews to try and find it, right??!?

And what is with companies not wanting any contact with their users? I guess because I’m not a business paying for Yelp I don’t matter? Even though it’s users like me who keep the site going indirectly by engaging with the content???

Hot Water Heater Installation

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We had our water heater replaced yesterday. Unlike last time, we planned it. While it hadn’t failed, it was 14 years old, so it was just a matter of time. We chose ABT since they have good prices and employees. And while I liked our installers (D and R), once again I’m reminded why I get so anxious about such events.

Things started off poorly when I was informed by the head guy, D, that the wall cabinet had to come down for them to do the work. I was rather dumbfounded, because that wall cabinet was there in 2007 when the last water heater was installed and I don’t think the plumber touched it, and he was working by himself! Now, I could be wrong, but if he did, he certainly treated it better than these guys did (more on that in a bit).

Shortly thereafter, I was also informed that due to the existence of a check valve on the line, ABT was required by code to install a thermal expansion tank (I believe the check valve was installed a few years ago when the village put in a smart water meter). However, ABT didn’t have one with them and would have to come back to install that part at a later date for cost ($50). When I told Joe, he asked if he could swing by Home Depot to buy one and have them install it and they said yes and showed us what to get (which just so happened to be what Joe was looking at). Within a half hour he dropped it off (one of the perks of working so close to home). We saved $20, but more importantly, having to empty the laundry room a second time (although I confirmed the cabinet would be able to stay put on the second visit).

After the old heater was removed, the head guy asked if I wanted to clean the area so I used the Shark handheld to get rid of 14 years of cobwebs and dirt. The water was off by then so I couldn’t mop the area, but I did have a spray bottle of just water that I used to wet some paper towels and do a quick wipe of the floor. It was by no means perfect, but you can’t really see anything back there once the new heater is in place anyway.

As for the cabinet, I did not realize that the way Joe put it up originally, using something called Molly Bolts, hindered the guys’ ability to reinstall it the same way because they didn’t say anything to me. Apparently, once disconnected, the bolts fall into the wall so you have to use new ones. I’m guessing either they didn’t have any, didn’t want to do it that way, or felt it would be better to use screws into the studs. Regardless, I wish they would have at least ASKED me! Because I would have told them to leave it alone and Joe could have put it back up later. Now it sits a bit to the right and higher than before. I’m short enough, so I don’t like that. Not to mention the wall looks bad around it, and they left a misplaced screw in the wall which also looks bad. Oh and the bins I had sitting on top of the cabinet barely fit and scrape the ceiling. UGH!

In addition, the linoleum tile was scratched to shit in some places and one tile in particular has a very dull spot on it now. Whether Joe did that when moving the washer and dryer, or the installers did, I’m not certain, but this is why I hate having work done. It’s like no one is careful with the surrounding finishes! I’ve made notes for any future work in that room since people cannot be trusted to be careful in other people’s homes.

Oh, and the new water heater is louder that the old one because of course it is. All appliances seem to be louder these days because they’re made with cheaper parts and less insulation to equal more profit for companies and less contentment for consumers.

Streaming Stupidity

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Determining when you’ve finished an episode of a series, and then displaying the next episode in your “continue watching” should be Streaming Services 101… and yet Peacock and MAX just can’t seem to handle this simple concept. You have to literally start the next episode and then exit out, otherwise the end of episode you just watched will be what appears in the “continue watching” section the next time you log in. Why these two services can’t figure out that if you’ve reached the credits, that means you’ve completed the episode, is beyond me.

And MAX takes it one step further by placing you at the end of the episode you just started watching, thus confusing you further and making you question where you really left off. This happens even after turning off auto play! I’ll let it finish the episode and take me back to the series page, and yet the already watched episode is forced upon me next time. Whhhyyyy? This is such a simple programming fix!

Apple gets it. Hulu gets it. Netflix gets it. Why can’t these two streaming piles of you know what fail at something so spectacularly simple, and why aren’t more people complaining?

I started using Just Watch (an app and online service) just to track my place in series because of this nonsense.

In addition, if it’s a TV series I can borrow from the library, I’ve started doing that vs watching it on MAX because it’s just too infuriating. We had unknowingly skipped episodes of the shows we were watching on that service because of how stupidly it operates. And if you check Reddit, people have been complaining about this for years and yet nothing has been done to rectify it.